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Can Your Disability Become Your Superpower?
How one man’s journey through epilepsy helped him find purpose, connection—and the power of radical honesty.

“If you wait 25 years to solve a problem, you spend 25 years miserable. But the day after you solve it? You’re free.” – Steven Lowell
What if the thing you’re most ashamed of could actually become your greatest strength?
In this soul-stirring episode of How I Ally, I sit down with Steven Lowell, a reverse recruiter and career coach who shares his extraordinary story of living with epilepsy—an invisible disability that once threatened to derail everything. From collapsing in the middle of Times Square to keeping his diagnosis hidden from even his closest family, Steven’s journey is one of perseverance, partnership, and ultimately, profound self-acceptance.
✨ What we talked about:
The shame surrounding invisible disabilities—and how silence keeps us isolated
Why his wife became a pivotal force in helping him seek a diagnosis
What happened when he had a seizure in the middle of a job interview
How being “blunt” became his superpower as a career coach
Why speaking openly—despite the risk—is sometimes the most radical form of healing
💬 A few things Steven said that stuck with me:
“Sometimes, you’re stronger because you finally agree to do the thing you were avoiding.”
“I used to think not wearing a medical bracelet made me strong. Now I know asking for help is what makes me strong.”
“We live in a time where people try to avoid uncomfortable emotions—but the only way through is to confront them.”
🎧 Listen Now:
Whether you’re navigating your own diagnosis, supporting a loved one, or simply trying to live with more courage—this episode is a reminder that vulnerability isn’t weakness. It’s where connection begins.
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Here is a video clip or ‘highlight reel’ from our interview:
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